There are five tomax firmnesses avaliable at the moment. These are hard, regular, soft, very soft, and rich soft. For those who have tried most of these or at least two of these firmnesses, which one is your favorite and why?
Which would you consider the most realistic?
Which would you consider the most stimulating?
Which would you consider the most durable?
Which would you consider the best overall?
Also, I heard that the very soft firmness is the least durable version for some reason. Does anyone else also had bad luck with the very soft firmness?
Which would you consider the most realistic?
Which would you consider the most stimulating?
Which would you consider the most durable?
Which would you consider the best overall?
Also, I heard that the very soft firmness is the least durable version for some reason. Does anyone else also had bad luck with the very soft firmness?
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winkyblink ( 687 )








@Anon1234567890
Some of your questions are subjective to certain factors, such as a particular Tomax design or model. Still, I will attempt to answer your questions:
Which would you consider the most realistic? - Venus Real in soft firmness, but Venus Real in regular firmness is tighter/ more stimulating.
Which would you consider the most stimulating? - I don't own one but my guess would be the Hard version. I'm sure it would be the tightest one.
Which would you consider the most durable? - Hard.
Which would you consider the best overall? - My favorite is regular. It's sorta like in between the Real thing likeness but just a little better.
Tomax makes among the best durable sleeves around, and all of the ones listed in TD are single-layer, which typically last longer than dual-layer designs. You pay more for a Tomax because the quality is there.
With all single-layer sleeves regardless of who the manufacturer is: the softer the material is, the less stimulating and less tighter they feel.
I'm a fan soft sleeves because I love looong sessions and edging most of the time.
Of the Venus Real series, I own the Regular, Soft and Very Soft versions. I also have a variety of the Lilith, Clone and Dolphin models.
Now if you are looking for something more stimulating/better than the real thing but close to the real thing design, I suggest Venus Clone in the soft version. It has a large, firmer G-Spot.
You should read the reviews posted on the sleeves that you are interested in; there are some well-thought out descriptions that I'm certain to have helped many customers make the best choices for themselves.
Are you new to onaholes? If so then you might consider starting off with something cheaper, like with a Ride Japan sleeve in their Bungee Touch or Softee Touch firmness which is pretty close to Tomax's, but not as durable.
Some of your questions are subjective to certain factors, such as a particular Tomax design or model. Still, I will attempt to answer your questions:
Which would you consider the most realistic? - Venus Real in soft firmness, but Venus Real in regular firmness is tighter/ more stimulating.
Which would you consider the most stimulating? - I don't own one but my guess would be the Hard version. I'm sure it would be the tightest one.
Which would you consider the most durable? - Hard.
Which would you consider the best overall? - My favorite is regular. It's sorta like in between the Real thing likeness but just a little better.
Tomax makes among the best durable sleeves around, and all of the ones listed in TD are single-layer, which typically last longer than dual-layer designs. You pay more for a Tomax because the quality is there.
With all single-layer sleeves regardless of who the manufacturer is: the softer the material is, the less stimulating and less tighter they feel.
I'm a fan soft sleeves because I love looong sessions and edging most of the time.
Of the Venus Real series, I own the Regular, Soft and Very Soft versions. I also have a variety of the Lilith, Clone and Dolphin models.
Now if you are looking for something more stimulating/better than the real thing but close to the real thing design, I suggest Venus Clone in the soft version. It has a large, firmer G-Spot.
You should read the reviews posted on the sleeves that you are interested in; there are some well-thought out descriptions that I'm certain to have helped many customers make the best choices for themselves.
Are you new to onaholes? If so then you might consider starting off with something cheaper, like with a Ride Japan sleeve in their Bungee Touch or Softee Touch firmness which is pretty close to Tomax's, but not as durable.
Anon1234567890 ( 20 )
@winkyblink How do you like the Very Soft firmness compared to the Soft? I heard that even the Soft firmness is STILL very stimulating compared to the real thing. Is the Very Soft firmness significantly softer? Do you feel any differences between the Soft and the Very Soft? Thanks.
winkyblink ( 687 )








@Anon1234567890
For me the Soft version's tightness is what reminds me the most about the real thing.
The Very Soft version gets more and more stimulating the longer you go. Hence the beauty of long sessions or edging.
My technique for long sessions is after my initial insertion I don't move around much. I take my time because if I move too much too soon, I pop off. So when I feel like popping off, I cease all movement, I rest a bit. I'm building a resistance to the stimulation, and after that phase (maybe 7 to 10 minutes of this exercise, sometimes longer) my errection begins to gets really, really hard, so hard that I can now do allot a moving and pumping while in great control of not popping off. And at this point I'm getting the best stimulation. This is where, for me, the softer material is at its best.
The journey to the end is so much better than the ending.
Yes, Very Soft in noticeably softer than the Soft version. I have been able to build my staying power with each of these different versions to where I can appreciate each one differently while having longer sessions.
The advantage of a firmer sleeve is with the orgasm itself: after pumping for as long as you can while trying to resist more aggressive sensation I experience the best explosions, especially when the sleeve is a tighter fit.
In this case, how you get there is how you win the game.
For me the Soft version's tightness is what reminds me the most about the real thing.
The Very Soft version gets more and more stimulating the longer you go. Hence the beauty of long sessions or edging.
My technique for long sessions is after my initial insertion I don't move around much. I take my time because if I move too much too soon, I pop off. So when I feel like popping off, I cease all movement, I rest a bit. I'm building a resistance to the stimulation, and after that phase (maybe 7 to 10 minutes of this exercise, sometimes longer) my errection begins to gets really, really hard, so hard that I can now do allot a moving and pumping while in great control of not popping off. And at this point I'm getting the best stimulation. This is where, for me, the softer material is at its best.
The journey to the end is so much better than the ending.
Yes, Very Soft in noticeably softer than the Soft version. I have been able to build my staying power with each of these different versions to where I can appreciate each one differently while having longer sessions.
The advantage of a firmer sleeve is with the orgasm itself: after pumping for as long as you can while trying to resist more aggressive sensation I experience the best explosions, especially when the sleeve is a tighter fit.
In this case, how you get there is how you win the game.
winkyblink ( 687 )








@winkyblink
After reviewing the other responses to your question I realized that I forgot to mention that my response are a result of the use with the Meiki Plush Hip, an accessory that I use with 90% of my sleeve collection.
The hip does not squeeze the onahole (much), where as when you handhold a sleeve, you can variant the amount of friction greatly during the session.
IMO, using the Hip has a greater reflection of the elusive "real vigina experience ".
After reviewing the other responses to your question I realized that I forgot to mention that my response are a result of the use with the Meiki Plush Hip, an accessory that I use with 90% of my sleeve collection.
The hip does not squeeze the onahole (much), where as when you handhold a sleeve, you can variant the amount of friction greatly during the session.
IMO, using the Hip has a greater reflection of the elusive "real vigina experience ".
FluffyShortsGuy ( 265 )






@Anon1234567890 Not the guy you asked, but lemme give my 2 cents. The very soft and rich soft are my favorites of all time, and in that order. They don't feel the same at all, to my mind. The very soft is quite soft, but the rich soft is basically pudding, and both remind me of the real thing in different ways. The rich soft is just a joy to be in, and it has an odd way of feeling tighter and "grippy-er" because of the way that the material deforms to accommodate you while also gripping a bit. The very soft has a much more stable structure, and feels more textured because it's harder, and it's texture makes it feel more like there's a muscular structure supporting it, as is the case with the real thing. However, I personally find that the rich soft feels more like actual mucosa. A vagina feels like the inside of your cheek, but with a little more texture, in my experience, and I feel like the rich soft nails it, but the very soft nails the feeling of a muscled organ better. They're both absolutely wonderful in my mind, though, and the only thing that beats either is the real thing.
Anon1234567890 ( 20 )
@FluffyShortsGuy
Hey thanks for the reply I appreciate that. I'm looking for something that's not too stimulating and can be used for longer sessions. I guess Rich Soft would suit me better right? I also heard that Very Soft is not as durable compared to other firmnesses for some reason? Also have you ever tried Meiki Maria? It's supposed to feel very realistic as well...
Hey thanks for the reply I appreciate that. I'm looking for something that's not too stimulating and can be used for longer sessions. I guess Rich Soft would suit me better right? I also heard that Very Soft is not as durable compared to other firmnesses for some reason? Also have you ever tried Meiki Maria? It's supposed to feel very realistic as well...
FluffyShortsGuy ( 265 )






@Anon1234567890 I can't say that the rich soft would be better for sure. Some people paradoxically say that the softness gets them there quicker. The rich soft or very soft both are pretty easy for me to take at my own pace, if I want it to take longer, it will, if I want to finish sooner, I can. Unless you're quite sensitive, I think the very soft is more likely to be what you're after. Even so, I think I like the rich soft just a tiny bit better, not much. Do you mean the Maria Nagai Meiki? It feels awesome, to me just a bit better than the venus real, but it's fragile. It's kind of in between the very soft and rich soft textures, but it tears so much that I haven't bothered buying it again because the Tomax is way more durable, and a little cheaper to boot.
Bluebear ( 32 )


@Anon1234567890
I have tried the soft and the rich soft version. For some reason, I find the rich soft more stimulating but it doesn't feel great as soft version. Most of the time, it's easier to last longer with the soft version. At the same time, a session with the rich soft version tends to make me sore. Both of them are durable, but the soft version is more durable. If I were to buy a Tomax Venus Real, I would probably try very soft version. The soft version is almost perfect. I would give it a 9.5/10. I think it's a tad bit tight when penetrated very deeply.
I have tried the soft and the rich soft version. For some reason, I find the rich soft more stimulating but it doesn't feel great as soft version. Most of the time, it's easier to last longer with the soft version. At the same time, a session with the rich soft version tends to make me sore. Both of them are durable, but the soft version is more durable. If I were to buy a Tomax Venus Real, I would probably try very soft version. The soft version is almost perfect. I would give it a 9.5/10. I think it's a tad bit tight when penetrated very deeply.
new2onahole ( 7 )
@Bluebear
“ If I were to buy a Tomax Venus Real, I would probably try very soft version. The soft version is almost perfect. I would give it a 9.5/10.”
Do you mean the “Very Soft” or the “Soft” is a 9.5/10? Based on this thread (and others) I’m leaning toward the Very Soft.
And also, have you found a 10? lol
“ If I were to buy a Tomax Venus Real, I would probably try very soft version. The soft version is almost perfect. I would give it a 9.5/10.”
Do you mean the “Very Soft” or the “Soft” is a 9.5/10? Based on this thread (and others) I’m leaning toward the Very Soft.
And also, have you found a 10? lol
Mrincognito ( 2 )


@Anon1234567890 have tried all of them and my fav is rich soft - but its completely subjective.
Anon1234567890 ( 20 )
@Mrincognito
How does Rich Soft feel compared to Soft? Is it significantly softer? Do you feel that it's more realistic compared to the Very Soft and Soft? Thanks.
How does Rich Soft feel compared to Soft? Is it significantly softer? Do you feel that it's more realistic compared to the Very Soft and Soft? Thanks.
Nevets ( 1 )
@Anon1234567890
I must be desensitized. I got the hard version of the Tomax Uterus and I still don't feel the texture. I have even used super thin lube. Nothing works. When I got the NPG ZXY, its so soft and squishy its like putting my rod in a marshmallow. That actually would be more stimulating.....I would still agree that Tomax is one of the best. I just wish they made one that was even firmer than the hard version. Guess I should look for something Xtra hard. If anyone makes it.
I must be desensitized. I got the hard version of the Tomax Uterus and I still don't feel the texture. I have even used super thin lube. Nothing works. When I got the NPG ZXY, its so soft and squishy its like putting my rod in a marshmallow. That actually would be more stimulating.....I would still agree that Tomax is one of the best. I just wish they made one that was even firmer than the hard version. Guess I should look for something Xtra hard. If anyone makes it.
winkyblink ( 687 )








@Nevets
You could be.
Try some of the models that have more aggressive textures, like ROMANESCO, Spiral-wave, or Clone.
When they get restocked....
You could be.
Try some of the models that have more aggressive textures, like ROMANESCO, Spiral-wave, or Clone.
When they get restocked....
vanessalotionfreak ( 3 )




@Anon1234567890 well the very soft is a mind blowing intense orgasm every time i use it. i would use it every day but the orgasm is very intense if you wait 4-5 days in between nothing else even compares .I have a new spare in the closet just in case. i have tried all of other firmness's this one is over the top better the a real pussy